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A Day in the Life at A Brand New Day

I wake up to a sunshine filled room and there is a huge young man greeting me with a friendly “Good Morning Wilbur!” I have no idea where I am, or who he is, but figure that it can’t be that bad because he knows my name and he seems nice.  I fake it and reply “Good Morning to you.” As usual, my bones ache and my feet feel numb, so it is nice that the big guy is strong enough to help me out of bed.

I just wish I could figure out where I am. Oh, wait a minute… aren’t I needed in the barn to collect eggs? My dad and uncle will be so mad at me if they find out that I slept in. I’m going to be in such trouble! I can see that the big guy has a name tag on. It says Adam. I ask Adam for help to get to the barn, but he says we don’t have a barn. Oh my, what is going on?

Adam can see that I am upset so he attempts to comfort me. I don’t know what he is talking about but follow his lead to the bathroom to wash up for breakfast. What a relief, all of my stuff is laid out next to the sink so I know what to do next.

As I walk down the hall, I smell coffee brewing, and bacon and eggs on the stove.  I’ve always loved fresh eggs, but I have this vague feeling that eggs are a problem. I sit down at my spot, surrounded by people,  yet none of the faces are familiar. I am served my favorite breakfast, eat my fill and the plate is removed for me. Mom is such a good cook. Where is she? Where am I?

Adam is back and he is handing me a little paper cup of pills with a glass of water. “Here Wilbur, take your medicine. It will make you feel better.” I trust him and swallow the pills. Now I am following Adam to the living room to watch the morning news. How does he know that I want to look at the news each morning? I literally don’t know him from Adam.

Just as the news is ending, a lady greets me and asks me if I want to go to the Sun Room for Bible Study. I can’t remember when the last time I went to church, so I figured I should go. She walks me to the Sun Room where there are a group of old people sitting around listening to this old guy read from the Bible. How come there are so many old folks around? I sit down on a warm and cushy chair listening to a story about David and Goliath when I wake up with a start. No one is reading from the Bible any more. How long have I been asleep?

I notice a group of people playing a game outside in the courtyard. The lady catches my eye and encourages me to join them. What the heck, I’m good at games. You’d think I won the World Series the way the group cheered when I tossed the ring into the center hole. This feels good!

My stomach is grumbling just when the big guy comes around to help me wash up for supper. What is his name again? We’re having beef stroganoff over egg noodles, broccoli and mixed fruit. I hate broccoli and am relieved that I am not being treated  like a child when I don’t clean my plate. No one says a word when I start in on the cherry pie. We always had a big meal in the middle of the day on the farm, so I know everything is all right. I’m given more pills to swallow.

After the tables are cleared, the big guy and the lady start setting up for bingo. This is popular with the old folks, but I like it too. It seems like everyone else is winning prizes but me, so I get a little grumpy and announce that I’ve had enough. The lady persuades me to stay for one more game. Lo and behold, I win!

I wake up from my recliner and the light is dim outside. Oh, this is so confusing! Where the hell am I? Who are all these people around me? There’s another lady who wants me to swallow a pill but I swat it out of her hand. Where is that big guy? I see shadows through the windows and suspect they are coming right at me. “Get those bastards out of here!” I scream.

Everyone seems so concerned. I follow a younger lady into a brightly lit dining room. She hands me a cup of tea and asks me to tell her about my farm. We talk and fold napkins together. This ain’t so bad.

Now it’s time for dinner. Chicken noodle soup, warm yeast rolls, green salad and chocolate pudding. Mom is such a good cook. Where is she? I haven’t seen her all day.

I settle into my favorite recliner and watch Bonanza.  Another lady, the pretty one, offers me a glass of milk to wash down my night time pills. I’m glad they help me remember because that doctor has put me on so many pills that I couldn’t keep them straight on my own.

All in all, it’s been a good day. I’m tired and ready for bed. The pretty lady tucks me in. I feel safe and warm.

This is a story of an 87 year old man with Alzheimer’s Disease. His short term memory is gone, but his childhood days come back to him vividly. It is not uncommon for those who have Alzheimer’s Disease to experience “Sundowner’s Syndrome” in the late afternoon. While this is a fictional account of a day in his life, it is an accurate reputation of the rhythm of life at A Brand New Day.  

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The Health Benefits of Exercise for Seniors

A Brand New Day – Redding writes a Senior Living column for the Record Searchlight which can also be seen online at Redding.com. We talk about a wide variety of subjects with common thread about topics relevant to Seniors and their families. To follow is a compilation of posts about the benefits of exercise. We hope you will be inspired to get moving

It’s never too late to start an exercise program

Do you need another reason to start to exercise? Perhaps the latest findings will be just the incentive you need to get off the couch.

The American College of Cardiology held its annual scientific meeting in New Orleans, of all places. After all, New Orleans cuisine is not especially known to be heart healthy. Findings from the Aerobics Center Longitudinal Study in Dallas were presented at the scientific meeting last week. The study showed that “consistent lifelong exercise preserves heart muscle in the elderly to levels that match or even exceed that of healthy young sedentary people.” (click here for the entire story)

Seniors are living longer and healthier lives

Today’s seniors are living longer than ever. Decades ago, many seniors lived into their 60s or 70s. Today they are entering their 80s, 90s and beyond. This is largely due to advances in medical care, however, practicing healthy lifestyle choices also contributes to greater longevity. (click here for the entire story)

Seniors find health and friendship at the gym

Everybody knows that exercise is good for the body. It lowers your risk for disease, helps you look and feel better and stay active longer.

Exercise isn’t easy, and seniors may have more reservations about the benefits of exercise than other age groups. How do seniors find a way to stay fit and stay motivated? (click here for entire story)

We are on Facebook

If you would like to become a Facebook fan and connect to others who share your interests, please check us out on our Facebook page at ABrandNewDayRedding. Every Friday we have a PhotoTeaser, (click for the entire story)

A Brand New Day is a 26 bed Memory Care assisted living facility in Redding, CA focusing on Alzheimer’s and dementia, respite and hospice care. Our license number is 455001567. We invite you to contact us with any questions when you are concerned about the safety and care of a loved one at 530.223.1538. We are happy to be your Senior Care resource.

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All About Seniors

 

A Brand New Day – Redding writes a Senior Living column for the Record Searchlight which can also be seen online at Redding.com. We talk about a wide variety of subjects with common thread about topics relevant to Seniors and their families. To follow is a compilation of last month’s posts. We hope you enjoy them.

 Senior Living: Fathers’ stories reflect hardiness of Greatest Generation

27 Sept 2012

 “Our first thought was that our dads had it easier than we do. They never went through “transition.” They worked for the same employer, had pensions and for the most part, financial stability because of positive economic times. Visions of “Mad Men” came to mind with the martini lunches and ubiquitous tobacco smoke hanging in the air.

I was talking to a childhood buddy, reunited by recent “in transition” network efforts. As we reminisced about old times, we started talking about…” (click for the entire story)

Senior Living: Prostate health important to senior men

19 Sept 2012

Prostate health is a man’s issue. We usually do not focus on a specific gender in these columns, but this is an important issue for men that should not be ignored.

Most men over 50 should have had their prostate checked physically and through blood tests. Early screening is crucial, because like most cancers, treatments are often most effective when cancer is… (click for the entire story)

Senior Living: Fans and friends share more words to live by

5 Sept 2012

Several weeks ago, we shared quotes that we felt were meaningful to our senior community, or just some nuggets of truth that struck our funny bone.

We asked our readers to share quotes that are meaningful. Both our readers from this column and our Facebook fans were eager to contribute quotes.

We are on Facebook

If you would like to become a Facebook fan and connect to others who share your interests, please check us out on our Facebook page at ABrandNewDayRedding. Every Friday we have a PhotoTeaser, (click for the entire story)

A Brand New Day is a 26 bed Memory Care assisted living facility in Redding, CA focusing on Alzheimer’s and dementia, respite and hospice care. Our license number is 455001567. We invite you to contact us with any questions when you are concerned about the safety of a loved one at 530.223.1538. We are happy to be your Senior Care resource.

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